Early Marriage

Disadvantages Of Early Marriage   by:

Many people are marrying early these days. They would like to get into matrimony as soon as their courtship is over. Tying the knot is important to strengthen their relationship. They feel settling down in life early would help them set up their independent home.

Examples are :
1. Responsibility has to be shouldered at a very young age. One has to take on household responsibilities, child rearing responsibility etc. There is no adult to guide or help out.
   
2. Missing out on the fun of teenage life and being young. The drudgeries of married life can get to you. They deprive you of your youth.
   
3. Health also can get affected as early pregnancy can have a negative impact on overall health.
   
4. Breakdown of marriage is possible. Often the young couple is immature to shoulder major responsibility and end up fighting with each other. Adjustment problems may arise.
   
5. Education also gets affected. The young couple may not be able to pursue higher education as they have to take on the responsibilities of family budget.
   
6. Work opportunities are limited for the youngsters. Since their education levels are low, they cannot get highly paid jobs.
   
7. Bringing up children may be difficult. Their knowledge of child care may be limited and parental guidance is also not there. They may not be able to provide the appropriate care for their child.

Reference: http://www.gistmania.com/talk/topic,64222.0.html 

How to be a Good Friend

How to be a Good Friend

I want to share this article with you by Vincent Nguyen 

1) Make sure they’re okay the moment you sense something wrong.2)Know when to be serious and when to be goofy.3)Go the extra mile when they ask for help.4)Don’t give up on them during their darkest hours.5)Make them feel wanted
6)Tell them, “I’ve always got your back,” at least once (and mean it.)
7)Understand and respect boundaries
8)Be honest and constructive needed9)Keep in touch and make sure you don’t drift apart.10)Start saying yes more often to your friends and make time for them.
11) Learn how to apologize. 

Reference: http://www.selfstairway.com/how-to-be-a-good-friend/