Disadvantages Of Early Marriage by:
Many people are marrying early these days. They would like to get into matrimony as soon as their courtship is over. Tying the knot is important to strengthen their relationship. They feel settling down in life early would help them set up their independent home.
Examples are :
1. Responsibility has to be shouldered at a very young age. One has to take on household responsibilities, child rearing responsibility etc. There is no adult to guide or help out.
2. Missing out on the fun of teenage life and being young. The drudgeries of married life can get to you. They deprive you of your youth.
3. Health also can get affected as early pregnancy can have a negative impact on overall health.
4. Breakdown of marriage is possible. Often the young couple is immature to shoulder major responsibility and end up fighting with each other. Adjustment problems may arise.
5. Education also gets affected. The young couple may not be able to pursue higher education as they have to take on the responsibilities of family budget.
6. Work opportunities are limited for the youngsters. Since their education levels are low, they cannot get highly paid jobs.
7. Bringing up children may be difficult. Their knowledge of child care may be limited and parental guidance is also not there. They may not be able to provide the appropriate care for their child.
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ReplyDeleteEarly Marriage is not an easy task. There are some effects of this to the person it’s because they are not in the right age. They can’t manage having their own family. Some of them also dependent to their parents/ they don’t know how to take care their children. The mother and the father are not mature enough to have that kind of family or having a family at the very young age.
ReplyDeleteTotally agree! couple's should marry when they are mature, mentally mature, which allows them to take responsibilities without breaking down. of course awareness should be spread about this, and the government should pay more attention to underage marriage and impose punishments to those who don't abide by the rules!
ReplyDeleteIf the "mature" couples are getting divorced nowadays..what about immature ones or those who are getting married at early stages! I totally disagree with the idea of early marriage because life can't be managed correctly.
ReplyDeleteI believe age is just a number. Those who get divorced nowadays didn't necessarily get married at a young age. On the other hand, many of the couples who got married when they were young live a perfect life together. However, I agree that young couples skip steps. They don't live the stages of their lives especially as teenagers.
ReplyDeleteI'am really against early marriage too, and in our days, the mature couples are breaking their relationship, so how about small girls and boys marrying. I hope in our country they prevent this marriage.
ReplyDeleteI believe that both the male and female need to live their life to the fullest before getting ready to get married, meaning they should have experienced life as an independent individual and seek education. Then, when the time is right they can both move to the next step and be in a relationship and see where that takes them, whether marriage or moving in separate ways. As long as both parties go into the relationship with maturity and experience they can make it through anything!
ReplyDeleteWhat you mention above is true.Early marriage is the world disaster nowadays, those who let their children get married at a young age, don't know the real consequences of that step. I believe every children should live their life to the fullest,they should get a proper education, build their life step by step, and when they feel ready they can take the step to get married.
ReplyDeleteIn my opinion, age is just a number. I believe that as long as both spouses have spent enough time with each other before getting married, know each other like a book and love each other while looking past their flaws, are able to live off well financially, and don't get in the way of each others' dreams (wow that's a lot of criteria, haha!), then I believe they should be married. It just so happens that being young means you likely aren't financially stable and haven't spent enough time with your partner.
ReplyDeleteWell, I believe that a successful marriage is the fruit of several factors existing all together. Both partners in marriage should respect and support one another. All their actions should be centered on the interests of the other. And here comes the age factor cause usually the people who have the same interests are around the same age. Love starts big but with time and responsibilities that go along with the marriage package it will change. And in my opinion if the couple's interests, acceptance and respect for each other is not deep they will face real problems. so i do think age is a big important issue that couples should consider before getting into a serious relation.
ReplyDeleteThat's right, early marriage for me is a crime against childhood and adolescence. In my personal opinion, the appropriate age for men to marry is over 28 and for women over 22.
ReplyDeleteAt these ages, both men and women are able to assume responsibility in all aspects: mentally, physically and psychologically, and the awareness of each of them is complete.
this topic confuses me the most , marriage is not a play it requires a lot of responsibilities even the mature people face and stop at a difficult issues they may face so for the under aged people i advise to live and explore how life is going on and train yourself to defeat critical and difficult circumstances first and then think of marriage
ReplyDeleteReally early marriage is a crime!! we face it in our society where the young girls are losing their life and also it affect them negatively on all sides, so many seminar should be done to make all teenagers think deeply before making such decisions.
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